If you want to pursue your dream, comfort is not your friend. Your dream belongs to you and because you are special and unique your dream is going to be a little bit different to all the 7,000,000,000 people on the planet right now.

Being different is risky. You risk rejection, humiliation and ridicule. You risk losing some of your friends or family members.

The thought of speaking up can be scarier than the thought of dying.

The truth is: unless you feel uncomfortable, you aren’t growing. And if you aren’t growing, you are shrinking. In this universe of ours there is no such thing as standing still.

Growth and evolution are a soul need. Our bodies need air and water, and our souls need growth and evolution in order to stay alive.

The 3 most dangerous words to our soul are: “I am fine!”

“I am fine”, means you are not experiencing true joy. It means you are in your comfort zone. How often have you traded true joy for comfort?

So here is what I recommend: create a dream that is bigger than you. A dream that gets your juices flowing, that inspires you and ignites something in those around you, a dream that carries you over hurdles and through sticky situations. A dream that heals you and heals the world.

Stop being fine and start feeling uncomfortable.

Start making choices from a place of awareness rather than from habit! Stop acting the same way you have always done, like your parents before you and your ancestors before them. Stop dying and start living.

As you start to make conscious choices to pursue your dream, you will often become aware of a push-pull energy inside your being.

This is where the discomfort comes from. You will want to move in one direction, only to find that life takes you into another direction. Part of you wants to earn more money, and another part of you wants to retire on a pension today and live on bread, water and fresh air while you potter in your garden.

Part of you wants to reach out in compassion to your suffering fellow humans, and another part wants to laze on the beach rather than organise a fundraiser for an orphanage in Tibet.

Part of you wants to get fit, slim and sexy, and as soon as you make that choice, another rogue part of you wakes up, devours a box of chocolates downed by a bottle of red in front of Netflix. You stay up late so that you oversleep and ruin your chance of growing a super bod the next day.

Many of us have some random parts that cause us to act in-congruently at the most inappropriate times. Most of us have fractured personalities. Some of us have it more together than others, but I haven’t met one human being yet that didn’t have a few splinters in their personality, or should I say a splintered personality.

A fragmented personality is often conflicted because parts of the self are at odds with the other.

True Healing is really a return to wholeness.

You can do healing the hard way or the easy way.

The hard way is doing it on your own, the slow way. Going through the school of hard knocks. That is how you will learn ‘life lessons’ and if you are lucky you won’t end up more splintered than before. If you are lucky you have 40 years up your sleeve.

Why is healing so hard? The reason is that only some parts of you want to become whole or healthy. The responsible, caring and compassionate parts of yourself. There are other parts, that might be equally as powerful or established, that want to remain splintered off from yourself. They are comfortable there. They get satisfaction from sabotaging your health and happiness. I often call these parts your shadow parts, because they live in the shadows. You don’t see them. They are your blind spots.

Now that you have learnt that you might actually have a splintered personality, it is time to make some smart choices.

Find somebody who can help you navigate your way out of the wilderness, a mentor who can guide you safely home. A person who has done the hard yards and who can show you shortcuts to health, happiness and success.

A person who can point out your blind spots and ease your growing pains.

There are parts of you that want to be released.

There are parts of you that want to be cultivated.

There are parts of you that need to be challenged, so you can live your dream.

You can’t do it on your own.

It could take you many lifetimes to uncover, release, heal and become the person you have always wanted to be and to actualise your dream!

Or you could participate in my 
Heal Your Life Mastery program which starts on Friday the 21st June at 10am till 12.30pm in Forth.
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The Heal Your Life Mastery includes hands on training as well as spiritual development and runs over 7 weeks, where we meet, connect with the chakra system, work with our shadows and heal our life through powerful energy practices. All within the safety of a small group of new generation of women and some men, and with me in the hot seat. I can read your energetic field from miles away and this can save you years of stumbling in the dark.

This workshop teaches you how to connect with your inner guru, your true self, your essence, your spirit. You will activate your spiritual superpowers so you can ease off on the striving, sweat blood and tears.

You will go into re-mission from the illness of “I am fine”

Re-mission means to remember your mission. (Your soul purpose, the gift you are to the world). Re-arranging your memories. Re-connecting with the different members of your nervous system so they can return home and integrate into the greater whole you.

Are you ready to make the best choice ever? The choice of conscious transformation rather than accidental change (by the school of hard knocks)?

Love yourself enough to register your spot now.

I am so looking forward to teaching you many world class energy hacks, show you your blind spots, and help you to heal your life, so you can live a happier life!

much love, Grada